Love, Loyalty, and Longing: Why Dog Owners Struggle to Relax on Vacation Without Their Pets

For many dog owners, the idea of a holiday conjures images of sandy beaches, mountain trails, or bustling city streets — but also a pang of guilt and worry about the furry friend left behind. A recent survey by Talker Research, commissioned by K9 Resorts Luxury Pet Hotel, confirms what countless pet parents already know: leaving your dog at home can make it surprisingly hard to unwind.

The Numbers Behind the Heartache

The study, conducted in two waves between April and June 2025, polled 4,000 dog owners across the U.S. The results paint a vivid picture of canine‑related separation anxiety — and not just for the dogs.

• 40% of respondents said they “constantly” worry about their dog’s wellbeing while travelling.
• 22% admitted missing their dog so much it actually dampens their enjoyment of the trip.
• On average, owners think about their pup 13 times a day when away.
• It takes just 53 minutes for the average traveller to start missing their dog.
• One in five have asked a pet sitter to put their dog on the phone, and 17% have even video‑called their pup.

These numbers reveal a deep emotional bond — and a shared challenge: how to balance the joy of travel with the pull of home.

The Boarding Perspective

In Prescott, Arizona, long‑standing facilities like Doggie Dude Ranch have been helping owners bridge that gap for decades. Owner KJ Skiby says the key is building trust — both for the dog and the human.

“For new clients, I always recommend a free, first‑time daycare so they realise this is a fun place to be,” Skiby explains. “It helps both the owners and the pets rest at ease when they pick up and are all wags and smiles.”

While some clients call every day during their trip, Skiby notes that most dogs are too busy playing to feel homesick. Still, she acknowledges that owners often worry about exercise, socialisation, and safety. Run cards — detailed notes on each dog’s behaviour, feeding, and medical needs — help staff tailor care and flag special requirements, such as “DNP” (do not pair) for dogs that prefer solo play.

Guilt, Cameras, and Canine Camaraderie

At Wags Pet Resort in Prescott Valley, General Manager Kerry Hunt sees a spectrum of owner emotions. Some are ready for a break, confident their dog is in good hands. Others opt for VIP camera access to watch their pet in real time.

“Leaving a pet can be like dropping your child off at kindergarten for the first time,” Hunt says. “We do our best to reassure owners with tours and by explaining our services, so they can see the quality of care first‑hand.”

Wags encourages owners to bring their dog’s own food to maintain dietary consistency, and offers group play, outdoor spaces, and spa services to keep tails wagging.

Small‑Scale, Big Heart

For Giselle Hall, co‑owner of Woof Woof Ranch, the most common concerns are whether a dog will eat, get along with others, or adapt to a pack environment. About a third of her clients check in during their pet’s stay.

“Most of them treat their pets like an additional child,” Hall says. “They want to know they are safe and being treated well, just like a parent would with childcare.”

Hall believes sincerity is key: “People need to be kind and want to be around a dog. Dogs can sense the feelings of the people they’re with.”

Why We Worry

Experts suggest that the intensity of these feelings stems from the way dogs integrate into family life. They’re not just pets — they’re companions, confidants, and daily fixtures in our routines. When that presence is suddenly absent, the void is felt keenly.

The study even asked owners what would make their dogs happiest: long walks, endless ball games, big backyards, home‑cooked meals, constant attention, carrots as treats, giant chew bones, rope swings, and pools all made the list. It’s a reminder that our concern isn’t abstract — it’s rooted in knowing our dogs’ individual joys and quirks.

Making Peace with Time Apart

While the longing may never disappear entirely, there are ways to make separation easier:

• Trial Runs: Short daycare visits before a long trip help dogs acclimate to new surroundings.
• Familiar Comforts: Bringing a favourite blanket or toy can ease anxiety.
• Clear Communication: Detailed instructions on feeding, medication, and behaviour help staff provide consistent care.
• Choosing the Right Fit: Touring facilities and meeting staff builds trust and confidence.
• Technology: Cameras and updates can reassure owners — though some may find it’s better to unplug and trust.

The Joy of Reunion

As Steven Parker, co‑CEO of K9 Resorts, puts it: “Dogs are true family members, and we understand the anxiety pet owners feel when they can’t bring their pups with them. Our clients know they can rest assured their dogs are enjoying a fabulous staycation while they’re away.”

And perhaps that’s the silver lining: the sheer delight of coming home to an overjoyed dog, tail wagging furiously, ready to resume the shared adventures — until the next holiday rolls around.